Marital Success: What Marriage Counselors Never Told You.
Is it not baffling as a large number of marriages continue to head for… or have actually hit the rocks? In the meantime, high-tech products aren’t providing solutions at the speed of light as expected. Without mincing words, one will be particularly surprised also at what’s observable, day in day out…; baffling is an understatement for the rate at which extra marital affairs get formed. And, it seems as if there’s no end in sight.
- High-tech tools will never save your marriage, you’ll have to do it… personally!
The simplest interpretation for all of these is that the average man is applying an effort that’s either wrong or wrongly directed, to achieve success for his marriage. Small wonder the man is angry when divorce becomes inevitable, thinking… “Women are ever impossible.” And the woman with devastation written all over her, thinking… “Why is she married in the first place.”
The amazing concept? We’ll get to it. Well, what’s noteworthy is that this concept has enormous scientific research facts to support its usefulness. Nevertheless, a surprising perspective to this physiological desire is that an average woman would rather keep silent despite an almost irrepressible interest for a recurrent experience. An interest that’s also in no way lesser than the masculine craves…
Since marriage counselors wouldn’t dare…, kindly let me also say that it’s in Paul’s divine and logical insight that…
“…it is better to marry than to burn.” 1 Corinthians 7:9 KJV
The concept has…:
- A massive capability to rekindle a glowing splint of love as regularly as required.
- An unparalleled power to create optimal mental excitement.
- A super-efficient means to provide key psychological relief to Recurrently Generate Mental Vitality for women, as in men.
Paul said it all in the wisdom lodged in 1 Corinthians 7 verse 9. So, the concept is straightforward and of course, well known but why do marriage counselors prefer to avoid it? This is because it is quite a challenge to fulfill the requirements in one step; seven of which are mentioned here. Hidden in these seven requirements are two factors that most probably, should lead others…
- A tall preference for nature. An issue that’s slowly and covertly turning your woman away from you and her home…
- An excruciating exercise. Surprisingly too at the mention of this concept, every masculine mind tend to imagine a tough exercise in addition to reasoning as far as unprintable words by some.
Get to know how to make use of this important physiological key… and, you stand to evade marital crash. Your woman will come out in full steam yet tirelessly, to safeguard your marriage. Oh yes, she’s the one equipped by the Almighty God for that job, not you. You only have a humble role to play. Well, we’ll talk about this role in the next article…
- The lack of this emotional key is the reason for perpetual anger and tension in married women… irrespective of culture or training.
Don’t bother asking; she wouldn’t ever confirm that except she’s a Christian in the real sense of that word.
And if you can… learn from your neighbor OR look over your shoulder!
- It’s the hidden reason for most marital collapse.
- It is one of her reasons for skepticism at the very beginning.
It’s the nub of marital infidelity, particularly feminine and hence a perfect reason for which men should look around… to solve an age long marital issue on a personal basis.
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Consideration for Defeating an Age-Old Marriage Killer
Marriage constitutes a romantic relationship and as such, bedroom intimacies are inevitable. In the meantime, the huge benefit obtainable from this exercise is weighed down by an unfortunate issue that shouldn’t persistently be. An issue that’s no other but… when the woman cannot have a behind-the-door peak
experience as often as desired. Oh, that… no! But wait, what a description by God’s words for this shortfall… a fraud! (1 Corinthians 7 verse 5). An inadequacy in the bed-top response of an average man will have adverse effects; not only on the woman, but on the man as well.
Feminine dissatisfaction behind closed doors is although an issue covered with much silence, it is more common than we often imagine and it has a devastating effect on every marriage. As such, to curb the trend, attempts could be traced back to over four centuries, proving a long-established but covert marital anxiety over this bedroom issue. Such attempts included those by:
• Modern Medicine.
• Science and Technology and…
• Ancient medicine.
To worsen this issue is the fact that most men don’t see it as a marriage killer; an awareness that’s completely open in women’s minds. In order to defeat this age-old marriage killer, there’ll be the need for two springboards:
• First, is to ensure that we align with God’s design…
The idea that men’s capability is inadequate is absolutely against the flawlessness of God. It hasn’t and will never resolve the issue.
• Second… to acknowledge the issue as social.
The solution therefore should not oppose the culture in any society.
Whatever solution that’s offered then, must have certain eye-opening characteristics. Hence, from the two conditions above, we could reason out that features of an approach that’ll lay an age-old marriage killer to rest include the fact that it should:
1. Be in conformity with diverse social and religious perspectives in every nook and cranny of human existence.
2. Be explainable and hence, repetition could be without a tiresome use of academic exercise.
3. Lack additional health risks, if it wouldn’t reduce those already associated with the natural bed-top
4. Dismiss the consideration for size… a source of concern for both men and women alike.
5. Maximize partner’s mutual pleasure, without necessitating the use of performance enhancement product in whatever form.
6. Have an approach that’s not difficult; without an iota of fatigue, and acceptable to both male and particularly, female. And finally…,
Behind closed doors, these are issues that’ll attract the gaze of any couple. They’re issues that’ll bring a woman out of her shell, to create (right in her bedroom) topmost sexual excitement sought after by men in extra marital affairs. Hence these are issues that could easily reverse the age-old bedroom anxiety. When a woman is
repeatedly taken to the peak of bed-top exercise as often as she desires, she’d – using her divine skills – ensure the success of her marriage… effortlessly.
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– A Uniqueness of Self-Empowerment
The capability of an average woman is not just divine but equal to that of men. It could be vividly observed to be covertly superior in certain aspects of life. In the early days of formal education, men were in dominance; with an imperious suppression of feminine social and academic life. It was Plato, Aristotle, Pythagoras, Isaac Newton, Galileo Galilei etc., all male. Meanwhile the woman has never failed in her duty; having been divinely empowered to act as an appropriate help to her partner – the man.
The first University to award a PhD to a female student did so in 1785;
- …492 years after it was established.
- …535 years after the first ever PhD to be awarded.
- And 697 years after the establishment of the first university/college in the world.
Despite these odds, women emerged from a needless obscurity that was cast by masculine suppression. Through the years, their effort shows that they have inborn capability to handle multi-task and valiantly too. They started from subsistence sub-sectors of agriculture and commerce. After the discovery of knitting – most probably by women – they and obviously too, went ahead to perfect the art. Today it remains the foundation of the textile industry.
Evolution of Family Sociology
There’s an important aspect of feminine self-empowerment which, to my mind, has been completely overlooked. This is an aspect that could earn majority of our Great Grandmothers the doctorate degree. It’s the application and development of sociology on a family scale. It is apparent that women started the practice of sociology long before the discipline became a formal profession of study. Inadvertently, they defined the unit of the society – the family, and consistently, sometimes stealthily… ensured its success. This was in the days when men receiving formal education were either students of Astrology, Philosophy or Theology.
Teaching and Learning
The situation was the same in the days when majority of men were practicing a profession called Alchemy – with its associated futile attempt. Then women were practicing what’s known today as Sociology. In addition, they were also the ‘lecturers’; teaching their sons and urging their daughters to pass this knowledge on as a legacy. Though they practiced on a family scale, an aggregate of their efforts drives the demand for good moral values in the society. These efforts elucidate the wisdom embedded in teaching and learning of Sociology.
One thing that’s certain in this is that there was no mention of Sociology in the early history of education. Sociology as a discipline therefore, must have evolved from the innate mentality of women. Inference from this is that she’s got the essential quality required to support her partner.
The woman is a part of man; she’s he and can never be less important. The man should do all he can to mine his wife’s mind; always asking for her opinion. …She form a negative opinion about such an attitude? Not at all! Rather, she’d see you as craving for her. And in an atmosphere of utmost sincerity, there’s a guarantee that the first thing you’d get is an unflinching love and attention. Here’s an aspect of love that makes a woman feel she’s in the right place – it’s intrinsic and deep – it is womanly. Try it… you’ll reap God’s promise of an ‘h-e-l-p meet’.
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