How to Communicate Effectively With Your Wife
The wife is not just an ordinary helper to a man but one that suitably qualifies. Letting your wife chat regularly with you, employing all the methods of communication would open up her mind and make her a better companion. To achieve an effective communication with your wife, you would need to take a lead using the following steps;
Always ask for her opinions.
Her opinion must be viewed as intellectual and must be well respected. No serious issue must be treated without her contribution. Most women often hold on, discuss issues – make the man aware before taking a decision. Some would do so even on trivial issues. No matter what, the man should be calm, suppress exasperation, and may even demand for her opinion first – the average woman allow for the masculine ego on every issue by waiting for her man. Put your own view to her as a suggestion and for consideration.
Encourage her to chat with you.
Women are notably designed for chatting, so much that most of them relax more when they are with female friends – then they talk about anything under the sun, screaming out of excitement. Yes, the man is not good at chatting but can intelligently start off a chat. Let her gist about whatever she’s comfortable with while you spice up with relevant jokes. She’d be encouraged to open up.
Use of non verbal means of communication.
Women use large amount of easily understandable signs for communication. The problem here is either the man isn’t bothered or claiming to be too busy, hence he’s not picking much of the expressions from his wife. There’s no harm in learning from her, ask and continue to ask her to tell you what’s on her mind. If you are sincere, she would know and talk – one thing women crave for in their men is sincerity.
Share secret codes.
Develop unique verbal codes for use in and out of the bedroom. Use the codes regularly, particularly in the bedroom to create fun. For instance, showing concern when she’s in flowers could be by asking…about the “Red Flag”.
The effects of these four steps are in two folds;
1. Your wife would always be happy with you – that she is relevant and appropriate to your life.
2. Enormous amount of stress, resulting from anxiety over family responsibilities and expectations would be lifted off your shoulders.
Allow her opinions and contributions, give them prominent considerations. Open up her mind to liveliness, share every mode of communication. Note that an average woman is very intelligent. She only needs a man that’s clever just enough to encourage and support the deployment of her capabilities.
So unburden, communicate effectively with your wife and be stress free.